If you cannot find an organic coconut oil, you can try either sunflower or safflower oil. Just apply vegetable oil directly to your scalp. Vegetable oil is good for cleansing little tiny dust particles that are responsible for dandruff, scalp irritation, and cause of hair loss.
Rubbing oil can be soothing and relaxing like most conditioners in the market.
The best way to apply the conditioner is as follows:
Massage small amounts of vegetable oil into your scalp using gentle fingertip pressure and circular movements. You can comb out the ends of your hair extensions to ensure that it has coated each strand.You can wrap a turban made from a hot wet towel to help the oil penetrate into scalp and hair. Leave the oil for an hour at least, overnight would be great. Wash the hair later.
If you want to try something different, you can give vegetable oil a go as it could become your conditioner.